One of the reasons why I am so turned off by the prospect of looking for a man to become romantically involved with is the fact that there are so many unsuitable guys out there. I am just completely appalled and rather disappointed in the lack of charm that the men of this day and age possess.
While I am fully aware that I have "high standards", I feel like it is a ridiculous proposition for someone to tell me that I shouldn't ask for a guy who can sweep me off my feet. Isn't that part of falling in love? Although I do not know exactly what I want per se, I know what I don't want when I see it.
Guys that approach me are generally intolerably ignorant. I cannot even fathom why they would think that we would get along. (Although, they really couldn't care less if we got along, most of them. They're just looking for a face pretty enough to have sex with without putting a bag over the poor broad's head.) To be perfectly honest, I always take a horrible glance back at myself to try and figure out what exactly I am doing wrong to attract these miscreants.
I'm not dumb.
I'm not easy.
I'm not unaware of motives.
I'm not trash.
I am worth something.
Don't worry, there are guys out there who don't just THINK, they KNOW, your worth something Rani. I know I have for a long long time, since we met back as freshman in high school. I just have never had the courage or the opportunity to approach you about it. Any guy out there would be lucky to have a girl like you in their life, and if they were smart they would hold on tight and never let go.
ReplyDelete-Same guy from the comments on the last post ;)
You're making me blush, stop it!
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Well you deserve someone to make you blush, and I know I like it when pretty girls do ;)
ReplyDeleteAnd I doubt you are actually doing anything to attract that kind of guy. They just tend to gravitate towards anything that is female and alive, especially if they look as good as you. You have every right to want to wait until some sweet guy comes along and proves to you he has everything you need. And who knows, maybe some guy will get the courage to come back into your life sometime soon and do just that...
-Mr. Anonymous ;)