My heart broke this morning. It didn't break because of someone cheating on me, though. It broke because someone cheated on a person that I love more than anyone else (with the exception of a few people).
I don't understand why anyone would ever be unfaithful to their significant other. If you love someone, how could you be so selfish and so cold to hurt them that deeply? Cheating is never okay. There is no excuse, no exception, and no reason justifiable to merit infidelity. If you weren't getting the love that you needed or wanted from someone, leave them before you find it in someone else. Two-timing is cowardly. It's pathetic.
And it's sickening. I looked up to you. I thought you were one of the best, most sincere and genuine people that I knew. I considered you to be part of my family. Now, I have lost all of my respect for you.
If you read this, I just want you to know that you hurt more people than just him. He loved you. He provided for you for years. Yes, I know that he wasn't the best boyfriend. Nobody's perfect. But there is no excuse for what you did. I am so disappointed in you.
I understand so much what you wrote... and I'm still suffering so much...
ReplyDeleteCheating is just fine as long as you don't get caught. How else are you supposed to find out who's right for you? Like they say in the slammer, "Its not a crime till ya get caught".
ReplyDeleteWoah, woah, woah. Anon. No.
ReplyDeleteCheating is not okay.
If someone is not right for you, you break up with them and try to find someone else.
Saying, "It's not a crime till ya get caught." is like saying "It's not an STD until it's diagnosed." Guess what? You've still got an STD.
My boyfreind of 7 years which also happens to be my daughter's father, has cheated on me during our relation ship if thats what you want to call it! well anyway the chick that he cheated with she called my phone instead of his, and had the nerve, when i answered the phone , to ask for him. How f***ing rude of her. It was like she didnt even care if i knew about her. in other words she wanted to be a bad bitch! So i gave him an ultiatum, get rid of that whore or we are through, take your pick!so he chose to be with me, but guess what! a year later i found out that he had been over to her place and i saw text messages in his phone from her! and to make matters worse, i had found out from my emergency room test results from some mild abdomnal pains that i had been haveing, that i had contracted chlamydia!!! I was sooo mad! I of course took care of the infection, but also confronted the both of them. That was in 2010 when all of this happened, but ya know, i dont love him like i used to anymore because of that and alot of other things that he's done to me like (stealing money out of me and my mom's purses, stealing my cell phone and pawning my kids electronic devices). I dont know why i continue to let him live with me its crazy! I use to turn other guys away whenever they would try and talk to me, but now im at the point where it gives me joy to be with men who are willing to treat me better than he is treating me! He's not going to realize what a good woman he has untill im with someone else. but thats how it always is though!
ReplyDeletewhen there is no more love, you have to be strong enought to LEAVE, the ones who cheat are the pathetic weak minded people who seemed desperate about their sex life and they look for it somewhere else, but they forget about love and at the end, believe when i say this, no one loves them back.
ReplyDeleteIt's one of the most hurtful things that can happen to someone in a relationship. Cheaters are selfish and want it all.
ReplyDeleteWow... Anon sounds like my ex... A.K.A a Douche.
ReplyDeleteYes, I really wonder why people cheat.I was almost taken aback when my boyfriend of 7 years also cheated on me. I worried for a long time but ended up realizing that he was so blind and dump to know my worth. I pray your love one find someone better and worth it.
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